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19 February 2020updated 09 Sep 2021 4:09pm

I’m learning how to actively confront my past – instead of being bombarded by Facebook Memories

Suddenly seeing an outdated version of ourselves makes remembrance uncanny, and often painful

By Megan Nolan

Three years ago, while travelling to Oslo for work, I had an unexpected layover in Ålesund, a port town on the west coast of Norway. Having missed our connecting flight, three other stranded passengers and I passed 12 hours together in a place I would never otherwise have visited. It was a surreal, almost mystical experience. 

One of my companions was a pretty, softly spoken photographer, whom I had been idly admiring since I first spotted him in the airport. Something about airports does this to me – in them I can fall in love with several people an hour, watching each drift off to different countries, imagining I was going with them. And now, improbably, I was splitting a bottle of wine overlooking a fjord with one of these fantasies. It was summer, so it didn’t get dark. We walked along the harbour wall and out to a lighthouse, and he took a photograph of me and the other two men we were with. I looked at it again when I returned to Ålesund last week, intentionally this time. 

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